I don't know if this thread belongs here....... I've been with my BF for 4 years, I love him so much. He has, what I consider, a big problem. He doesn't have any drive, and this drives me crazy. He settles with what he has and doesn't expect more. I love him so much I am extremly worried a bout him, he has the great oportunity of going to a School with his dad's complete suport, I mean my parents don't wantfor me to go to school (yet I love what I do and I am willing to fight for it, I graduate in 4 months), while his dad is asking him to do so, for what ever he wants (he's in his 4th year and still a sophmore). He says he want's to take over his dad's company, but he doesn't want to get his custumer service certificate or his insurance licence (he works in his dad's insurance company). He says he want's to marry me but he doesn't do anything for his future, or even try to save ( he says he invested in the market, but you also need to save from your income), I don't want to get married right away, but I don't want to waist my time waiting for something that will never come. I've tryed talking to him about this, about how important his future is, but now I'm a bitch for caring. He is not a bum, he works, but I don't want to have to drag him all the time. I am not in the best of situations right now (I'm working on making things better), and I've been seriouslly thinking on moving in with him, but I don't want to do it in this situation... agggrrrr, I don't know what else to do. I don't know if it's me, if I'm expecting too much, or i'f i am really a bitch. I don't even know if he want's me in his future any more, bc h doesn't show it (I understand we are both very young, 22, but if he doesn't want me I don't want for him to waist his or my time) any sugestions?