I've had a very fucked up relationship with this girl. We've been friends for a year, but initially met under the idea that we would date. We fooled around a bit but never decided to be more than friends. A lot has gone down between us, and needless to say, things have been rocky. We did end up having sex many times during the friendship. We would fight and say that we shouldn't have sex any more, yet after that, we would still have sex. Sometimes she would initiate, sometimes I would. It would seem that we were both irresponsible. She says that she only had sex with me because she wanted to be close to me (she wanted a relationship and I didn't). She's saying that because I had sex with her without feeling the same way, that I basically used her. One time, in a heated argument, where she spitting out her venom, making me feel like a piece of shit who treated her like a piece of shit for using her, I said something like "fuck, you make me sound like I'm a rapist." We argued about that and I was extremely taken aback by the fact that she would make me feel that way. Now things have really fucked up, and we're pretty much through. We had a last fight, and here's what was said towards the end: Her: and you used me like a rapist Me: wait wait wait Me: are you calling me a rapist Her: im calling you a user Her: for the simple fact you can fuck someone with no feeling Me: are you seriously calling me a rapist? Me: do you fucking know what that word means? how old are you? Her: keep talking Me: if you are seriously saying that... Her: well lets see Me: then that pretty much puts the lid on everything. that seals it. that's all she wrote. Her: you knew how i felt about you Me: woah woah woah Her: and you continued to fuck me Me: are you defending it now? Me: you're actually calling me a rapist Me: and you're defending it. Her: if i were you id stop talking Me: please, look at yourself honestly and see what you're doing. She's calling me a rapist and defending it. Me being ultra paranoid, I'm like, "what the fuck?" Rape is NOT a word you throw around like that, and certainly ACUSE someone of wrongly. She said she's saving the entire conversation and sending it to this girl in my class that I've been talking to (just talking...for a week...apparently she has a boyfriend...we hung out last night at her friend's house...nothing happened). She's threatening to go to her boyfriend to. I would not put it past her to do this. I'm freaked the fuck out and I don't know what to do about this. She's actively trying to ruin me. I really need advice.