So my girlfriend is in her mid thirties so she is very against using the pill as birth control. She says the ring bothers her, so we are left we just a lot of sex with condoms ugh. We had a bit of a problem so we had to use the plan B option, so no sex for a few weeks now(tends to cause yeast infections). I want to get my girlfriend to use some kind of birthcontrol, condom free sex is probably one of the great reasons to have a long term relationship. Am I unreasonable to talk to her about reconsidering some other form, or is this a common thing women not wanting the ring or the pill?