so i've been seeing this girl for a year and some change. there's two things she's VERY good at: cleaning (she's very OCD) and sex (5"2' 110 lbs of raw energy). now i know that's the dream for most guys, but i really only started dating her because i was pretty torn up from a previous relationship, and well, she's hot. which, as anyone knows, does wonders for the ego. as of late though, i'm pretty much done with the sex, everything is clean, and i'm starting to feel the erosion of my projected feelings towards her. so anyways this is how it went down... lately i've been burying myself in work and activities because, i'm rather selfish, and double as to put separation between us. so last week she calls me up and gives me the perfect out. she's asks me, "are you happy in this relationship?". man-o-man i thought the gods were smiling upon me. so i laid it all out on the table. i explained to her, in more words than these, that "i don't see myself marrying you", "i'm really not in love with you", "i don't want to be in a relationship", "this is pointless", "this is over", and avoided all contact with her after that conversation. later that evening she decided to make an unannounced visit to my house (this isn't the first time i've tried ending it, so i was prepared for this). upon arriving home from work i had turned all the lights off in the house except for a lamp in the living room which i always leave on. she drives up as expected. so i turn off the television and take up eyes at the peep hole in the front door. she knocks on the door as i watched her silently, pretending of course that' i'm not home. after a few minutes she walks away to where i can no longer see her. i had thought my simple little plan had been quite effective, and she was leaving. little did i know she had walked around to the back of the house and jimmied the door open. walked up the stairs in complete stealth, and tapped me on the shoulder as i was staring out of the peep hole in the front door like a fool. i couldn't help but laugh as i was busted in the act of silently being a dick. in fact i couldn't keep it together enough to keep my guard up, and so we're still together. i'll try again this weekend. any tips aside from sleeping with someone else or using my fists of persuasion?