i don't know how to do it backstory....started dating this girl about 6 months ago. shit went good at first (as always) but the last month i pretty much don't like her anymore. we constantly argue, i'm miserable around her cause of it, and we haven't had sex. well the other night i got drunk and ended up cheating on her. i know you will all probably flame me here for that but it doesn't exactly pertain to my problem. i want to break up with her. problem is that i don't really know how to go about it. if i tell her the truth (she makes me miserable and i cheated on her) it will probably hurt her. plus its the end of the semester and i dont want to get her all depressed during finals...but i really am annoyed. she isn't staying the summer and when us still dating was brought up she didn't seem too optimistic about it. i guess the question is...should i tell her the truth, hold it in for 2 weeks and break up with her then, or just break up with her with a bs excuse like i cant be in a relationship?