long story short, she wants kids and i'm undecided. She wants to get married and I don't see the point. I'm not attracted to her anymore, and can't see myself living the way we are living for the next 30-40 years. There's other shit, but that's the important stuff, imo. I feel pretty shitty about it, but mostly because I know she's going to be devastated, and she really doesn't deserve it. We've never cheated on each other that I know of (she's really not the type anyway), so it's not something that we really did to each other, I just think over the years we've grown too far apart. The biggest problem is we are so financially fucked right now splitting up is going to be really tough since we are sharing a car, and we own a house together. Don't really have any assets to liquidate to pay down debts either. anyway, hell of a first post in the Asylum.