Hey guys, Im callin it quits with the girlfriend of 4 years. It was great until August when she started her senior year in college and wants to "live" it up like its her last year alive on this earth. She distanced herself( we live about 50 miles from each other as is, we would see each other almost every weekend) from me so Im assuming she is running around on me because her behavior is totally out of the norm. I Did my part in the relationship so I dont have any regrets, just got to move on. Edit : Going to end things with her, she gave me the news 10/1/07 and she called me during the day yesterday 10/2/2007 crying and feeling ashamed of what she did. She was saying that she ruined the future, and she is sorry for everything, and she still cares/loves for me, and us. I have been cutting ties wit her ( facebook, myspace.. took down all the pictures and changed our status) but she hasnt done so, I feel that she doesnt want the world knowing what she has done or she is embarrased on who it is with. Only 2 of her peers know what has been going on and the rest don't know about whats going on with this guy and he is in their group of friends ( she is in sorority thus big social network ), so I was telling her that if you are emabarrased about everything and him now good luck with that in the future.