What is OT's take on buying drinks for women? I'm having a hard time between thinking it's the gentlemanly thing to do, or if it's just a sucker's game. Everyone knows that there are alot of women who tease and manipulate men in order to get them to buy them drinks. My own sister brags about her keen ability to get free drinks off of suckers. I found a website the other day that tallies poll answers from women. One of the questions asked if guys should buy drinks for cute girls at the bar. The vast majority of women answered "Yes, but they are just using you". This just perplexes me. Men should allow themselves to be used and taken advantage of? The way I see it, if I'm talking to a woman and we're vibing, I'll offer her a drink, but if a girl approaches me and says "So, you gonna buy me a drink?" I'm gonna tell her no. Agree/Disagree?