I'm 22 and by no means am I old, but it seems based on what I have read on this forum that most people knew they were gay way before my age, but i've been confused lately. While I have no desire whatsoever to do anything sexual with a man, I have been noticing my lack of desire to do things sexually with women. For instance, if i'm at a bar I have no real desire to even talk to girls. Not because I wouldn't do things sexually with them, just because I don't feel the desire to pursue it. I have troubles getting along with girls if I know sex isn't going to be involved. I'll take guilt free sex from just about anyone and yes I realize I lack morals. But the whole act leading up to it just doesn't seem worth it to me. I suppose what comes my way will come naturally? I know this sounds sleezy, but recently I was at my gym and seen grafitti in the washroom saying gay things. It sort of interested me. Not because I would want to do something like that, but because its different. Is it possible that there is a reason why I don't pursue sexual relationships with women? I have no problems talking to other males and getting to know them, but as far as im concerned, I have no desire to do anything sexual with them. For example, recently I met a Russian man. A few days after meeting with him, I went and talked to him and he immediately said "im straight". Was probably assuming I was trying to hit on him just because I was wanting to get to know him. Is that odd? Im sort of all over the place here with all my descriptions, but im so confused. At this point I would say I would be open to try anything, but im not going to try new things for the heck of it. If it happens, it happens I guess?