I just finished reading "He's just not that into you" for about the tenth time since I bought the book at age 17. Reread it because my friends politely pointed out that I'm rusty in the casual dating department (was in LTR for a while), and I need a refresher. Apearently I was doing things absolutely against what the book preaches. Now my question is: Can PUA and "He's just not that into you" styles co-exist? Seems to me that it would make it WAY too hard too start up any kind of relationship. There would be a bunch of "non-interested" fakies running around. Both styles seem to tell their sex to act uninterested and to hide any sort of emotion/feeling for the opposite sex for as long as possible. Guys, if you need a run-through of HJNTIY, I'm sure someone here can sum if up for you, or I can later. I can say it's almost NOTHING like the movie that came out last year that was supposed to be "based" on the book.