this may be a thread for the psychology buffs but it has to do with my g/f and i. everyone has bad days. on those bad days you get real short with everyone and everything. when my g/f has one of those bad days, she gets really short with me and easily frustrated. now when she gets like this i only try and help her out. i try and keep the cool and level head while she's flustered and freakin' out. in turn, i feel as though i'm not doing any good to help her and as a result i get mad (sometime even more-so than her). any tips as to how i should handle the situation when my g/f fly's off the handle? i'm only trying to help and i always get frustrated and mad with/at her. thanks everyone.