Can you make a woman sign a contract that says...

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  1. Falconer

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    (sorry this was too long to fit into the Title box)

    ... if she gets pregnant you are not financially responsible?

    This would prevent women from saying "oh yeah, I'd have an abortion." *she gets pregnant* "omg I changed my mind!" or "just kidding!"
     
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    no, pull out dumbass
     
  3. lauren

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    sure. doesn't mean it will be held up if she contests it.



    the ''make her'' aspect seems like one of the critical weak points in the concept.
     
  4. AutoEuphoria

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    Well...you can't MAKE anyone sign a contract. But even if she agreed to it, there is no way it would hold up in court.
     
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    Although don't you think it is about time it should!!! Really... should you be having sex with some if you haven't discussed the "what ifs"?

    I know this useless waste of human protoplasm that has had 2 kids by 2 different guys just to try to trap them into marriage and failing that, she is now sucking out 18 years of pretty good $$$$ in child support. Now the welfare systems will have 2 more "lifers" because she will never teach them any better :rant2:
     
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  6. Falconer

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    Replace "make her" with "ask her."

    It's like a prenup but for pregnancy instead of marriage.

    A woman who really loves you with no ulterior motives would marry you even with a prenup.

    A woman who really wants to have sex with you with no ulterior motives would sign such a contract.
     
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    what if a woman has no intentions of having an abortion? just not date her then?
     
  8. Pringles

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    why even ask or fathom this question?
     
  9. Falconer

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    If that is the guy's criteria then yes.

    Obviously this whole thing only applies to men who don't want kids.
     
  10. Falconer

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    To protect yourself. Same reason you get a prenup.

     
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    or perhaps the guy might take the kid but not want the mother involved after the birth...
     
  12. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    No, you are responsible for the child no matter what the mother says.
     
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    Falconer do you really have these problems? Or are you scared to do anything and just creatively come up with all these random thoughts?

    I personally feel if you can't trust her then you shouldn't be in a relationship with her and thus this doesn't work for me.
     
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    That's what you think but regardless of how successful the feminist claim their movement has been males still get totally shafted by the US court system.
     
  15. Falconer

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    I'm serious about the prenup.

    But I was just wondering about the pregnancy contract.
     
  16. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    it's not her benefit, so how can she waive it ?
    You owe the child a certain level of support.
     
  17. metakone

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    I agree that he owes the child a certain level of support BUT if he didn't want the child (because he didn't want to support it) and she had the child anyways, isn't he free of his obligations ? Its not fair that he has to "pay" for someone else's (his GF) decision.
     
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    The point I think people are making is that according to the courts it's 100% the females decision whether or not to have the child but the male is still responsible for supporting it.

    Which is a bit unfair, if women want equality they should get it across the board or nothing at all. She wan't the baby but he doesn't? The she gets to raise/support it 100%.
     
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    except when you have sex, you are willingly doing something that you know could produce a child. its both his and her decision to perform the act that creates the child.

    i know technically men have no choice over if the woman keeps said child or not, but the blame is already equally split over both parties at that point anyway
     
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    Everyone gets shafted in Canada, you're Canadian. lulz
     
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    Exactly, either they both deicide to raise it or the abort/adopt it.
     
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    then can you make a man sign a contract that says he will help raise the child if a pregnancy happens, so that he cant change his mind and decide he wants an abortion?
     
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    Men who have donated sperm and after the couple brakes up have had to pay child support. Even worse is, he didnt even get the fun of making the child.

    I guess if it is signed, witnessed, and has a notary stamp on it it may hold up.
     
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    a contract which contradicts the law is unenforceable
     
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    If you can find a lawyer who can write up an air tight contract, it might just hold up in court.
     

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