Lets discuss this. Everyone who is about to scream "dont play games" gtfo of my thread, as I am not discussing intention, morals, etc, but tactics. I had to cancel a FIRST date lately and stopped and tried to think about her future reaction, and I came to the conclusion that cancelling a date (but not at the last minute) could actually be good form. We wan't what we cant have. Cancelling makes us more unavailable, plus she's already agreed, so there is some form of investment. Thinking on when people have cancelled on me its always just made me want them more. Case A: I want a girl, she cancels on me, I want her more. Case B: I don't want a girl, but somehow we decide to hang out. She cancels on me. I may still not want her but somehow her value appears higher. So, argue against me. Why NOT cancel a first date?