we dated for the past 2.5 months and things were going really good. it felt like there was definite potential for something long term, but she's got major baggage, and isn't ready for something long term. So in the past week it went from everything awesome, to us barely talking and when we do it feels like i'm bothering her. Its fucking tearing me up inside because i let myself get close to her and now it feels like she's pushing me away even though my behavior really hasn't changed at all. how the hell do i get back on track and move forward? I don't want to lose her as a friend because she makes me feel really good and pushes me to do better with my life.