It's actually making me feel very down all the time. His weed smoking started out as a once in a while type of thing. Now, it's multiple times a weekend in large doses, and he just got a prescription card to open the door for more weed. In the last 8 or so months, he has spent nearly 500 dollars on weed/weed paraphenalia. I've been with him for 4 and a half years, and I don't want to leave him, but I just feel appalled by his habits with marijuana. I've talked to him about it... he says that his health is fine and he's never had better academic/physical performance. I still feel very depressed, and I'm actually beginning to feel hostile towards him. Am I wrong?