so i was in a relationship for 2 years. and yes we were young but it was intense and we went through A LOT. i gave a lot of myself and when we broke up we of course agreed to be friends because we still both cared deeply about the other. well one day he stopped answering when i would call and never returned my messages. just one day he dropped me. and then finally he told me that he was seeing someone, and i understood that they needed time. well this was a year ago. she still will not permit me to talk to him, even though i have been able to a couple times in the past year. well i can't let go. i was really hurt that he dropped me like that and forgot about me, especially because i went through a really rough time and i asked him for help and he told me he couldn't (and of course i still thought all those promises during and after our relationship of always being there for me still stood). well i've tried so hard to forget him and to rid my mind of him. but i can't. it seems no matter what i do i just have so many questions. i feel really abandoned. anyway, should i try to appeal to his better nature and get him to talk to me or if not, how do i forget him? it was easy for him to forget me, and i'm in a relationship now too but i still can't shake him. so please OT, what should i do?