I can't read body langue directed at me. I never have been. I can set in the corner and see it directed at others and see EVERY little thing. But as soon as I'm the focus I just don't get it. Later I can look back and see little hints, but not at the time they happen. Of course by then it's too late. I never see the girl again or they think I'm not interested. I can look back over the years and see a lot of things I've missed out on. I honestly think I've unknowingly walked away from more girls then most men have had. I have to somehow reprogram myself to SEE these things. I just don't know how to do it.