We've been dating for about 3 weeks now, and one night I went down on her for the first time, it was all good...but I couldn't get myself up (she didn't know this ) which in fact worked out fine since she said she wasn't ready to go all the way yet to my relief because for once I wasn't ready yet either. I'm just a little worried, I've never had a problem getting it to stay up, even my first time was no big deal. I've never had such strong feelings for a girl before either, could that, plus not feeling ready be why I can't keep myself up? Sure I arise to the occasion when we make out, but as soon as I notice it goes back down and thats the end of it. I'm guessing I am juuust not ready yet. I know it's not because I am not sexually attracted to her, she is the hottest girl I have gone out with.. I'm just confused lately Just wondering if anyone has any ideas. I feel like a virgin again with her...she said she feels that way around me too, this is too weird.