I don't know what to do with the current relationship that I'm in. I'm very happy and I have no doubts about my feelings. I'm concerned about her. I'm in a relationship with a female that has two kids. The kids aren't the problem...it's one of their fathers. It seems as if she has a "soft spot" for him and he says things that effect her emotionally. Now, we're all human but if you don't care about someone then it shouldn't bother you right? Everyone has been done wrong and we learn and overcome it. We're supposed to get married in March but I just want to make sure that there's nothing left in the past from her.