CHAT THREAD: 2397 Is Marrying Her Netflix Account

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by 2397, Mar 5, 2015.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. 2397

    2397 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2007
    Messages:
    8,652
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    FL
  2. nish81

    nish81 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jul 6, 2006
    Messages:
    11,185
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    london
    in on 1
     
  3. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2004
    Messages:
    23,672
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NoVA
    :rofl: @ iwywb's comment
     
  4. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2002
    Messages:
    14,296
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    NYC
    lol.

    What is the phrase that jjj likes to use that means generous patient goodness will beget generous patient goodness?

    edit: got it. virtuous circle.
     
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2015
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,570
    Likes Received:
    5
    :kiss: I hadn't even realized that thread was made in 2013!!
     
  6. lawngn0me

    lawngn0me In every wish and dream and happy home, you will f

    Joined:
    Nov 1, 2008
    Messages:
    4,594
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    in your garden
    just started a new job this week.
     
  7. lawngn0me

    lawngn0me In every wish and dream and happy home, you will f

    Joined:
    Nov 1, 2008
    Messages:
    4,594
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    in your garden
    ehh. its a start. but it is a prestigious place to work. money is decent and it'll help me get to somewhere i want to be in the future.
     
  8. D7

    D7 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Dec 20, 2008
    Messages:
    6,475
    Likes Received:
    1
    Congrats :)
     
  9. 2397

    2397 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2007
    Messages:
    8,652
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    FL
    Congrats, lawngn0me!
     
  10. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2004
    Messages:
    23,672
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NoVA
    I totally got a vasectomy.
     
  11. nish81

    nish81 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jul 6, 2006
    Messages:
    11,185
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    london
    so this girl i've been in an open relationship with since last september. i just asked her to be exclusive with me.

    on the plus side i like her a whole lot and i've never communicated this well with another girl. on the minus side, she has a more physical friendship with an ex than im ideallyy comfortable with, ie holding hands/sitting on lap/etc.

    my reasoning is: she claims she feels nothing for him and all of that means nothing/reflects no feelings from her part. even if she's not being honest with herself, i think it's good for me to learn to trust a girl despite my misgivings (ie it'll come in handy for future relationships), since im quite an insecure person atm. so 1) i do think she's being honest, and 2) even if she isnt, it's good to learn how to trust another person despite misgivings ie it'll be helpful for future relationships
     
  12. 2397

    2397 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2007
    Messages:
    8,652
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    FL
    don't do it
     
  13. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2002
    Messages:
    14,296
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    NYC
    your math doesn't add up for me.

    You should absolutely NOT trust someone who exhibits untrustworthy behavior, especially if you have trust issues. She will violate your trust and that will reinforce your "dont trust anyone" tendancies when you should be looking for someone who seems trust worthy so you can learn to trust more easily/more fully.

    I also would be concerned about the guy. He see's her giving every indication of being interested, so he goes and does something grossly disrespectful to your new exclusive relationship. Now what? You know she invited that. Do you freak out at him for doing it? her for inviting it? both? manufactured drama.

    "she claims she feels nothing for him and all of that means nothing/reflects no feelings from her part."

    What shes doing is not ok. why is she sitting in his lap? It's almost worse that shes not doing it because shes attracted to him. If it's not attraction then what is it? she just likes the attention she gets from teasing him?

    imho, in a standard vanilla monogomous relationship I expect my partner to uphold both propriety and the appearance of propriety. Something looking bad, is something bad. I don't give a crap about "it doesn't really mean... It's not like that" If it looks like that, you shouldn't being doing it. period.

    That being said, you are not currently exclusive with her, so her behavior now is not necesarily how she behaves in a relationship. I would make my expectations clear and if she enthusiastically agreed I'd procede. If I had to twist her arm that she should stop the foreplay with her ex, that would be a big red flag for me.
     
    Big_6 likes this.
  14. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2002
    Messages:
    14,296
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    NYC
    :bigthumb:

    no kids? how old? congrats man. I wish I had the balls to do it. I'm just so afraid that I'll meet a girl that I would want bad enough to suffer through the child rearing grind for.
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,570
    Likes Received:
    5
    :eek3: Good for you, that's kind of fascinating

    Hmm, I don't know that I like the sound of this, but I'm assuming she accepted being exclusive?
     
  16. 2397

    2397 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2007
    Messages:
    8,652
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    FL
    I am planning a trip to Iceland and Denmark this summer, for my mom and me. Really excited, but also totally overwhelmed. It's all I can think about!
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,570
    Likes Received:
    5
    :h5: That's awesome!
     
  18. 2397

    2397 OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2007
    Messages:
    8,652
    Likes Received:
    21
    Location:
    FL
    :h5: will be only my second time out of the country (first time I was 17, went to England)
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Sep 8, 2004
    Messages:
    23,001
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Manhattan
    Oh wow. Congrats
     
  20. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2004
    Messages:
    23,672
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NoVA
    Go for it.
    I'm 34. My fiance has a child. I had thought about it before, but like you, I was nervous that it would be a deal breaker for potential partners. I mean I also wanted a kid at some point too. :rofl: But now I have one, so that's not a factor. And I'm getting married to a woman who isn't looking to have more, so that's not a factor either. Granted, there's always the possibility that things could change for some reason - and I've considered that - but I still think it's a good decision.
    Fascinating why?
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,570
    Likes Received:
    5
    :dunno: Because you're a young, unmarried (for now) guy and it's not common. I'm in no way against it, I still am shocked though when someone follows through with it :)
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,570
    Likes Received:
    5
    Things have been going great with the guy I've been dating...until his batshit crazy ex decided to swoop in and shit all over us with her drama :iough:
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2004
    Messages:
    23,672
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NoVA
    LIKE A BAUCE.
     
  24. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2004
    Messages:
    23,672
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NoVA
    Glad to hear things are going well. :)
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Sep 8, 2004
    Messages:
    23,001
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Manhattan
    What impact has she had?
     
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.

Share This Page