Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by 2397, Mar 5, 2015.
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Ooh, so I see
A 4 year LTR is like living in your parents house. It feels like yours and it feels like home, but deep down you know it's not and that comes across in how you treat it. If it's your house though, you take it more seriously because you know if you wreck it, you're the one who is going to pay for it.
Our relationship definitely changed when we got married. Not in a drastic way, but in a more intense way. We'd been living together for 5 years when we got married.
Once you have that commitment you're more inclined to make sure it works out. And you know that you're 'stuck' with this person so you need to make sure you both have the best life you can otherwise you're going to be miserable. The 'Well I'll just leave' is removed from the table.
At least it was for me. It does seem like a lot of people still have that as an option when they get married, which is why the divorce rate is so high.
that makes a lot of sense, thanks
I figure here is the best place to mention my current situation. Hopefully with the new forums comes people out of the woodwork.
So, I matched on tinder with the guy I lost my virginity with. He had no idea who I was at first (wasn't offended or surprised) and dropped some nice words like 'Nope we didn't go to school together I would have remembered someone as good looking as you' *gag*
Anyway, we've met up since and chatted a bit, even made out, and have pretty much been texting back and forth since. He has a much different memory to me of my first time and makes it out to be much more positive than I recall. But he's also said some things like I was nervous and I gave head and it was shit so I really want to go back and prove him wrong. However he's much more charismatic and easy to talk to via text than in person. He was heavily into drugs at school and he's just a little slower in person, which isn't a huge deal. So I think I might go back and relive my first time and it's kind of scary And for some reason I'm really nervous
^ I saw your thread in the main about this!
Are you still actually attracted to him?
I don't think he would have been the type to attract my eye had I not already had that history with him. But I'm definitely attracted to him. Saw him last night and learned some more information which might make all this a little tricky. Why the fuck can't life be easy
Oh, and I woke up with a hickie - High School is back baby
Care to elaborate on that?
Do you actually want me to?
Of course. I'm not here because I like the 'sound' of my own voice
I don't have it in me anymore.
I hope it all works out for you, MK.
When do you want to make the decision about moving or not?
How has she gotten two years without her parents knowing?
Thanks, I think. Still interested in the JFC comment....
well go on then!
I'm not sure, first have to consult the immigration lawyer I was put in touch with and figure out if it's even possible and then what kind of timescale we'd be looking at
Her parents live in India. it's somewhat common in conservative brown (south asian) culture to date for a long time without your parents finding out. she's had three boyfriends in the past and her parents haven't known about any of them. her friend just got out of a 3ish year relationship where neither sets of parents knew.
Miss u nish
lol he did come in clutch that time
Legitimately have contemplated moving to London for easier access to limited shoes
send me more links man
but if they're more morning releases you'll have to pay some unemployed guy $10 on a task site to wake up at 9am and order them to me