I'll break this up, and try to be thorough incase that matters. So a few months back I met this girl and we had a good time and exchanged numbers. Two days later she texts me saying she really liked me, she wants to see me again, and she was sorry for being so drunk. We texted a few times and I never got around to calling her because I was busy with school and not terribly interested. A couple weeks later I get a phone call (I don't answer), followed by some texts saying she wants to meet up. I just kinda shrug it off and tell her i'll call her sometime. It wasn't that I didn't care to hang out with her, but at the time we lived a hour apart and I was coming out of a long relationship and wasn't caring too much about dating her... just kinda keeping my options open. A week later I get another call about hanging out so I tell her I would call her at the end of the week when I am less busy with school work and moving into a new place. I finally get moved out and setup a date with her. We went out every weekend for a month (so like 4 dates) and had a good time.... she was a pretty cool girl. After the 4th date she started getting kinda serious and planning stuff for the weekends and wanting me to meet her friends and brother, etc... I wasn't over my ex yet, and was also dating another girl on the side (in addition to this one) and didn't want it to get serious; plus I was losing interest in her. I broke things off with her, told her she was a cool girl but I didn't want anything heavy. She took it pretty well and played it off like it was a good idea...... So everything seemed fine. Flash forward, it's been like a month and a half since I last went out with her and she still calls and texts me. I never answer/respond, but they still keep coming At first it was questions like "what's new" or "how are things" or she would tell me something about her life and ask to hang out. I told her I didn't think it was a good idea. Now she sends me texts trying to get me jealous saying how she met this cool guy at the bar and they're going to go out, etc.. etc... I could care less what she does, but she won't stop texting me, even after I told her to and she agreed to So what do I do here? Just keep ignoring them until they eventually just go away altogether? They are getting less frequent, but still coming in (on the weekends usually). The girl I am with now knows about it, but I don't want this to cause problems with my current girl. CLIFFS: Met girl, finally went on dates with her after she bugged me enough. Dated for a month, I broke it off, and now two months later she still tries to contact me weekly.... What should I do?