So I just recently started having sex (it was both of our first times) and so far I have only used the Trojan Her Pleasure Spermicidal (which Ive recently read that Spermicidal does little and can actually be dangerous). But anyway, the condom feels extremely tight, and after awhile the base of my shaft, where the condom roll is, theres a red line (like when you put a very tight rubber band around your finger) and my penis gets a darker shade like theres little circulation (Im talking more coloration than the normal that comes with increased bloodflow in a normal erection). If I touch the head, I can barely feel it. Needless to say, out of the 4 times we've had sex, I havent came once . I've given her multiples, but it just seems like with the current condom (I hope all arent like this) I just cant enjoy the physical feeling of sex, but I still enjoy the emotional connection (no matter how corny that sounds). Bareback is not an option. She will probably be getting on the pill soon, but she would also like to use a condom for extra security, and I respect that. Is this normal for a condom? Any condom suggestions? Or other advice?