I recently met a new girl and after texting for a bit we decided to meet up. We had a great day, conversation never got boring, we had the same interests/sense of humour. We end up getting back to my place to watch a film... She starts holding my hand, cuddling me, then kissing me (I didn't go any further because I like this girl and didn't want to get the whole "you only used me for sex"). So it gets to the time when she has to leave, she hugs and kisses me goodbye and promises she'll come see me again soon. Text me about half hour later with "Thanks for today babe, I really needed it after last night" (she had arguements with parents). About 2 hours later I get another text through telling me she thinks she wants to be just friends for now, because if we got into a relationship she would end up fucking me about and ruining it because she's no good at them (typical girl excuse). I text back telling her that it was her choice, but I think she missed out on a great guy, she agreed. After that I have not text her again because I don't want to be the clingy/needy guy that chases her begging to get with me again, I'll wait for her to text me and respond in a distant manner, as if she could of had me and can't anymore (thus creating the "want what I cant have" attraction built in to her fucked up women genes). Am I doing the right thing? I asked advice from one of my best girl friends and she said she may be just confused about what she wants, as in to flirt/have fun for a while before getting in another relationship, or perhaps likes someone else aswell and is unsure who to chose?