I know this is an extremely cheesy first post compared to the first posts of others like nudes and hot girls or whatever, but I'm extremely depressed over this issue. History: I've had the same nucleus of friends ever since high school (4 or 5 guys) and we've been close ever since. It's one of those group of friends that you can't categorize which is your best friend since all of them are so close to you. Problem: At first, it was just one of these 5 guys who started drifting away. He started hanging out with some buddies of his from work and they go out to drink all the time, while the rest of us just hung out by ourselves. Then as we entered our second year of college, 2 more people started drifting away. However lately, they've (meaning the 3 of them) been hanging out a lot and don't even mind calling me to hang out with them (The last friend left has a girlfriend he hangs out with a lot so he doesn't really mind). The problem is, I have no other close people to spend time with since they were my closest friends. My feelings: Alright so I don't know what to do right now. I know they're not intentionally sending me messages since I know my friends, and they're not ones to sneak behind my back. If they have a problem, they'll say it to my face pronto. I'm having ambivalent feelings towards them like hatred, indifference, and neglect. *sigh* my other option is to get a girlfriend, but I really don't want one right now since I'm trying to concentrate on my education as of now. Offtopic, What would you do if you were in my situation?