I met this 40 year old chick at a bar last Sunday. She had a server come up to me and tell me that I was hot and looked like Robert Pattison . So I go up and start talking to this cougar who was surprisingly attractive. She basically tells me that Robert Pattison is the hottest guy in the world and I look just like him but with shorter hair. She also tells me that she's newly single and that I should take her out to this bar sometime that I had just told her about . I get her number and leave. Fast forward to now. Haven't called her yet, but was planning on it when I get home from work. Only thing is, my nuts are shriveled even thinking about it. I'm nervous as hell. She's got a good 16 years on me and have no experience with someone so much older than me. I feel like I won't know what to say around her or it'll be weird or some shit. I'm not looking for a relationship and I reaaaalllly doubt she is, but I'm completely down to bone. If I take her to this bar I told her about, she will be the oldest one there probably. I don't want her to feel like that, so I have no idea where to take her. Also, should I just invite her to come out with me alone? Or should I invite her to come out with me and my friends? I need some advice on this, I feel like a child.