http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3332719 Update from this thread ... I'm embarrassed to write this because of the way it turned out but its early in the morning and no else is awake and I just got home so I need to vent.... So I had the 3rd date last night. I ended up takin just a treat for the dog. Which turned out to be fine. It started off weird cause she had her roommate over (who i thought was goin to be gone) then another friend came over. So we all had dinner together. It was ok but I felt out of place and did not really talk much. Played mostly with the dog, lol, who is super cute. Anyway, the room mate (and friend) were there cause they were leaving very early the next morning for a trip so whatever. I withstood it. The room mate and friend ended up turning in early (9pm! good) and we stayed up and watched a movie. Finally alone with her, we had great conversation together. I was funny and slightly cocky. We partly watched the movie cause we were talkin about other things which was fine. Once the movie ended, we kept talking until like Midnight and then I decided to make my move. She didn't back off at all. So we made out for a good 15mins. At one point, the dog started crying in her room so we went to see it and she said she was going to put him to bed and if I wanted I was welcome to stay, if i didn't mind sharin the bed with the dog (wait...What?!) I thought about leaving but I said to myself I'll stay for a while longer. I ended up staying the whole night. We made out more and more and things progressed further and she fully advanced it as well. I thought to myself I wonder how far will she let me go. Well, she let me go all the way. Here's where it got interesting...When we ready to have sex, I was fully erect but I just could not get a good position with her after the first try. I could also feel that she was very tight. Just getting one finger in was hard. It was weird. Then I thought I finally had a good shot at inserting my dick in her and I felt the damn dog licking my butt! I was a lil bit disturbed about that. We laughed it off though but I had the dog in the back of my head now cause he stayed on the bed asleep. Here's the fucked up part .... I lost my erection after that and so i went to the bathroom to go pee and as I was doing so I felt a pain from my balls all the way up my side. I was like fuck. I've felt this pain before like a couple of weeks ago but ignored it. So after peeing i went back to the bed and we started making out again and tried gettin hard again but couldn't. Everytime I did get hard, I couldn't get a good position for insertation. And then on top of that the damn pain started again. So anyway, we tried many times, used many condoms but I just couldn't it get going. We finally gave up and fell asleep. The last attempt was this morning. I was giving her a backrub and my dick on her butt felt so good that I got hard and we tried again from behind but then I got a damn cramp in my leg and I nearly fell off the bed from the pain and now I'm worried about this other pain that shoots up from my balls to my groin. Even sitting here right now, it hurts mildly. On the drive home, it hurt as well. I'm thinking about calling my doctor today and making an appt for later this week cause this shit is upsetting. I don't think it helped also that I got hit in the balls earlier this week by someone. But like I said I had this pain BEFORE that was well. I don't know what it could be but its weird. I wonder if I need viagra?? lol, at 30yrs old though! Thats crazy! I wonder if I have EDS or whatever that shit is called. As for the girl, she was very apologtic...She felt bad about the whole situation. I didn't tell her I had a shooting pain though. I just told her I don't know whats going on but its not happening. I told her this was my first time this happened also. I could tell she was very disappointed I know she wanted it bad and I did too but i fucking fell apart. It sucks. I hope I didn't blow my chances with her...she did say to call her though. And I asked her what she was doing next weekend. SO...maybe plans for hooking up again could be possible but I'm not sure. I don't want to hook up again and this shit happen again. I'm fucking embarrassed as it is now. CLIFFS: Meet girl on third date, both of us were ready to bang but my space shuttle did not have a full take off. Complete failure. And now I am concerned with a shooting pain I have in my balls to my groin. Am I going to die?