DAMNIT! Girlfriend's sexual past is getting to me! What to do? ADVICE PLEASE So the woman I'm in a relationship is already a month.. I met her through a friend at a get-together at his place that he was having.. she is down for sex already but I rather wait it out with her till I'm sure because of some things that I've found out from her that has been really bothering me. First off, she loves to goto clubs and party every weekend.. she knows I'm not up because I want to stay more serious on my career and our relationship. I have talked to her about how I feel with guys that may just want to use her for sex.. she tells me she would never jepordize our relationship and as much as I want to believe her something tells me that she might fuck up.. because of the fact that shes been with 12 guys and she just turned 18 recently.. I'm 19 years old.. anyhow, she lost her virginity when she was 15 to her ex bf.. I feel for only 3 years that 12 guys is a ALOT for a chick. Anyhow, being a guy you would imagine that I'd love the idea of screwing her whenever I want because given the situation shes up for having sex with me when I want.. problem is, I want it to be worth it to both her and I. I want her to feel an attachment for me, not just a "oh, well I got to fuck my bf.. another guy to add to the list there". heh.. but as sad as it is to say this.. I'm IMTIMIDATED by the amount of guys shes been with and I'm not really sure if she takes sex as important as I do... this is coming from a guy that doesn't want to be like every other guy out there that just WANTS SEX but when given the oppurtunity which has been quite successful wants to do it with a girl hes in a commited relationship with and has feelings for her.. and shes starting to have feelings for me and says she cares about me, etc.. but the feeling of knowing how many guys shes been with scares me sometimes.. I feel like she might have an STD.. as much as she tells me she has been tested and is clean I just get worried.. I guess part of it bothers me knowing shes always wanting to goto the clubs and I'm not there and temptation can get the best of her since I currently won't put out.. shes the type that would get hit on alot since shes really beautiful. AND NOW its to the point that when I'm around her and she wants to fuck.. I actually sometimes get turned off that I don't even have the "chase" anymore with her.. because shes been with so many guys. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I want a more "pure" chick, and I just don't know if this girl will last for a long time given the circumstance of her passed with guys.. shes never been really commited or treated right and I want to change that mindset of her.. So what do you guys recommend? Am I beating a dead horse here.. should I break things off, is this something I should talk to her about with all the guys she been with of how its effecting me? I'm confused.. there are many great qualities about her but right now I'm listing the things that bother me so you all can hopefully offer some advice for me. If it was me.. giving advice like I usually do.. I would've broken up with her awhile ago but something wants me to stay with her because I feel like she needs a guy who can show her what a REAL relationship should be like.. and I've been wanting a relationship myself lately and I feel sortof like I'm filling the void in my current state.. but I just don't know if this is the right decision I'm making.