Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by fog99, Dec 14, 2007.
any tips on how to keep a relationship with more than one girl quiet?
I'm just gonna take a shot here...how about not tell anyone?
brilliant! this is why you're a mod
I'm patting myself on the back right now
Are the girls involved aware they aren't in an exclusive relationship?
If yes, IWYWB has some fabulous advice on the subject.
get a daily planner so that all of them gets equal time to spend with you .. it can get tough planning them into your schedule with college and work etc ..
don't bring your phone with you when you're with them, she'll find a away to check your text messages
check your car everytime you drop her off, she might leave girl-shit on the side door i.e. hairclips, lipstick
don't tell any of your friends, it's not worth the risk
don't become too confident in your ability to deceive them, otherwise you'll lose your focus
maintain everything the way it was and have your best friend bail you out in case you need an alibi
here's a thought. Be honest with them. Just let them know that you don't want to be in an exclusive relationship. They'll either be cool with it, or they won't and they will leave.
If you keep it secret, and they find out, and aren't cool with it, they will leave.
So you really have nothing to lose by being honest about it.
Save yourself the time and energy of having to keep things secret.
everything prolifics said was on point, especially the thing about the stuff the girl leaves in the car. girls love to leave stuff in your car.
do not tell your friends, do not tell your family. do not brag. do not tell anyone anything.
preferably, have the girls call you by a different name. like have one call you "mike" and one call you "MJ." this will prevent them from finding out as well. also avoid being photographed by/with them.
also, if you must refer to them, (such as if a friend asks who he saw you with) then make up a fake name for the girl
dont ever leave your phone at their place.... bad times, they will check your texts
jesus christ, why would you put that much energy into this shit?
Just let them know you're not exclusive...end of thread
I would say that is a great question to ask a therapist.
wow, I would fail on the second date.
How pathetic that someone would go through that much trouble when honesty would just save them so much work.
ha ha, it's enough trying to satisfy one girl, let alone more than one.
Morals aside, threadstarter, you are a fool.
If you want to get scattered ass, just go get some scattered ass and dont' even get in a relationship. Why someone would want to go through all that trouble to be with more than one girl is beyond me. lol
Maybe we've misinterpreted the situation and he's one of those dudes with 3 wives that know about each other but he needs to hide it from everyone else... since... you know, it's illegal and all....
Heh, well my statement still applies even if that is the case.
Well... this may sound strange, but I thought that sounded really fun, not like work. Secret names, secret people..
I'm not making a stand on the morality, I'm just saying, that's not work.
Not for you then, but it apparently is work for the OP who is asking how he can conceal the fact that he wants to date more than one woman without the other knowing...