Discussion in 'On Topic' started by PooP, Nov 5, 2009.
What are OTs opinions on the subject?
Depends on why you broke up and what the relationship between you two was like during that year.
Forshadowing of epic failure? I'm no psychic, but I can tell you that I rarely see these things work out.
It's still possible it could though, so good luck man.
It's not necessarily for me. Me and my gf of 3 1/2 years broke up 6 months ago. We still talk every once in a while but not too much. Just been thinking and was curious about OTs opinion.
Thread might help someone else make a decision.
It will always be situational though.
If the question is literally "what do you think of getting back with an ex after a year oif being apart?" with no details I'm going to say "it wont work."
I hear you.
I guess it was more of a curious question on dating ex's after a long time apart. But every situation would be different I guess.
Anyone have any success/horror stories on getting back together?
I'll tell you... the first time you have sex again will probably be VERY passionate. And maybe even the first few dates will feel so perfect and like you two "click." After all, you probably still know each other really well as far as core personality and attributes. But, like everyone else said, it depends on why you broke up. It's very likely these issues will resurface and replay.
I dated an ex a few times a couple years after we had broken up. It was nice because we clicked right away and it ALLLMMOSST felt like something more than it was, but in the end, we had originally broken up because we had grown apart and into incompatible people and that was still the case. Also, we lived in different cities so that pretty much sealed the deal
If you don't fix the problems that caused the original breakup, then this round will be a repeat.