ok here is a synario A young 19 year old man is confronted with his own homosexual feelings. He has had sexual encounters befor with members of the opposite sex befor but some how know's that isnt for him. He has desire's for members of his own but is bombarded by thoughts and feelings that tell him he is wrong. This is the story of what goe's through this young man's mind. For as far back as this 19 year old can remember he has had a sexual desire for men. He never has had anyone he could talk to about his feelings or desire's, only what he has been taught to believe.Long ago he learned how to ignore/block his homosexual urges but now that he is 19 he know's that he is not a kid anymore, and part of growing up is confronting your self. He has a set of religious morlas inprinted on to him from a early age and as well as a overwhelming fear of peers and there reaction has never allowed him self to act on his urges. And now that he is ready to confront him self he has found he has bit off more then he can chew. He has been taught that homosexuality is not allowed in the eye's of his GOD. On the other hand at the same time has been taught that his GOD is infallible. GOD made him with the parts to mate with the oppisite sex inorder to reproduse. But at the same time gave him a mind that wants to do the oppiste of that. If he was not made to be with memebers of the same sex why would his GOD give him the mind to want to do so? He then remembers that GOD aslo granted him with "Free will". But in taking that and fallowing his homosexual urges does that mean he has failed at life? (a bullet is ment to be fired. When the primer is hit it ignights the powder to project the bullet from it's shell, because that is what it was designed for.) Or does that mean that his GOD is no longer "his GOD". That it was all made up to support a believe that someone had of what was right and what was wrong in that persons mind? What would you tell this confused young man to help him deal with his feelings?