I can recieve oral for a good 10-15 min prior to blowing. However, i cant have sex for even a few minutes (and even less that that) with blowing my load. I tried the thinking about other shit or even taking the feeling out of it but it doesnt help. i will stop in the middle when im about to let loose and even let him chill doing nothing for a good minute to two while i play with her clit or go down on her to give him time to slow his roll. But the few seconds i pop him back in hes already ready to go. Unfortunately, this embarasses me and even makes me prefer oral to sex just cuz i can last longer and i dont feel like a loser. Any advice, home remedies, something that can help with this shit is greatly appreciated.