OK right now im in hell massive depression ,breaking down and just lost . To start been married 12yrs in march and had the usual ups and downs got a 11yr old daughter. We have seperated 3 times and i have gone back for my daughters sake and i know thats the wrong reason but have been together for the last 8yrs and not matter what i cant seem to make her happy . She will always complain about everything house not being clean enough for her , lack of money or how she hates her job and then goes on to how im useless,lazy,good for nothing and a real piece of shite. Well so far in her depression i have tried these things a joking comment was made about maybe she needed a girlfriend so i leet her explore this option and she liked it . Then her rules clearly stated that i was not invited on these endevors well that fizzled out sorta. Then i went on to do the flowers and gifts and tried to make things romantic as possible but all i recieved was either she was tired or it just seemed like it wasnt appreciated.ok so years later it eases up and i ask her about what she wants to do fantasies and such . well the topic of a mmf threesome comes up as she has always wondered about it .So we try it lil awkward at first but once everything gets figured out the sex was awesome best we have ever had so this has been done maybe 8 times in 4yrs with varying degrees of success and failure with one person . Well i have cought her 3 times online with relationships in the past and it has torn us apart but i have stayed for my daughter .well things go downhill from there in the last 6mo the emotional and mental abuse from her has increased to about a hour constant daily and off and on cheap shots . Now over the last couple of weeks she has turned up the sexlife to +10 trying new things that has never ben done bofor and really blowing my mind but then comming back later in the day or next and telling me how worthless i am and how she hates me .Well she has gotten into this attention sponge where ever and how ever she can get it flirting, compliments about what she wears and such well a long time friend of mine and hers he was talking about how he had been working out and as a joke she grabbed his ass i was standing right there and it was laughed off as a joke and they had been talking and since he had alwasy just talked alot of shite nothing was taken serious . well he said with me standing there that he was going to come over and take care of her when i was gone and it was laughed off and she said yeah what ever .well last wed he called her and said he was close to the house and wanted to come by she said if he wanted to come by for a bit he could but she had to get ready for work . so that would have put it about 8:40ish am . Well i get a call about 10:20 am saying that he forced himself on her he was going to leave and she grabbed his ass again and gave him a hug and licked his neck HER STORY ... she said he forced his way back in the door pinned her to the wall and kissed her forced her hand down his pants and pulled her shirt up and her tits out all while she is crying and beggin him to stop and he finally leaves . She begs me not to call him until she gets to work so he wont come back by the house and that she will take care of it for me not to call him WTF . it took me about 3hrs to calm down and get a semi clear head so i called him . HIS STORY... he came by and they talked and she kept messing with him and when he went to leave she grabbed his ass and then he turned around and she hugged him and licked his neck a full body hug and she didnt let go so he kissed her and put her hand on his chest and she slid it down his pants so he slid her shirt up and pulled out her tits and played with them and he said the whole thing lasted maybe 2-3 min and she said i cant do this today i have to go to work so he left . they both think that my webcam was recording sicne she brought it up and freaked and just coincidence it was out of camera shot when all of this happend and the bad thing is i have know him 20+ yrs and he has never lied to me and it has gotten worse with all of the emotional and mental bashing since then and im just lost and dont know what to do i almost think more happend and they are both covering it up and yesterday she asked me if i had talked to him and i didnt respond im just so confused on what to do and the depression is getting severe causing breakdowns and total loss of emotional control what do i do please anyone with advice share it .