wow What a way to end a great friendship that has lasted for 4 years. background: i'm very interested in this girl who is also very interested in me. we go on being wierd, but healthy sexually frustrated friends through 3 years of her being with various "boyfriends" along the way. we both finally come to grips with the feelings that we had for each other and when she broke up with her bf of 7 months, we acted on those feelings. Nothing heavy at first. I stressed the importance of taking it slow because I did not want to become her rebound. I wanted more than sex, more than companionship, I wanted someone that felt the way about me that I felt about her. She makes it a point to tell me every second that we're together that this is not a rebound and that the feelings she has for me are real. I'm happy. for 2 weeks. until she decides that we're moving to fast (we had fucked by then) and wants space to "deal with her problems." she told me that she is in no shape to be a good girlfriend to me with so much baggage from this last relationship. I agree and think that it's a good idea for our future. and then, she tells me that she's gotten back together with the ex. i've never been this depressed before. I've lost all will to do anything. I can't eat, I can't sleep, and I'm certainly not focusing on my grades the way that I have to. My friends have continuously told me to write it off and just learn from it, but how can I just give up what we had. two weeks may not sound like alot, but the kind of chemistry we had together from knowing each other for 4 years made us great cantidates for having a relationship together. FUCK!!!