Background Cliff's: A while ago: I find a girl from high school on myspace that I haven't seen in at least 8 years. I msg her. She replies with "omg, my middle school crush!" We chat a bit. I'm in a LTR at the time. Nothing happens. Recently: We start talking again on myspace. It's one of those "why haven't we gone out for drinks yet?" We email a few more times. She gives me her phone number and we agree to plan something. So we talk tonight for a while on the phone. I know long conversations are bad but we haven't seen each other in like 10 years. It's going awesome and everything was flowing smoothly. We joke a lot, I neg her a few times and it has good results, etc. Often, one of us would say something and the other person was like "omg, I know exactly what you mean..." etc. At one point I was like "alright, I can't even talk to you; we're too similar!!" (I think that one is from Mystery or Style). She laughed. Finally she's like "so are we going to go meet up or what?" We're both busy as hell but we realize we're both free on Sunday so we're going out this Sunday. You know how some girls are natural "players" and pull game on guys, sometimes subconsciously, and do so very well? I do NOT get that kind of vibes from this girl at all. She's very intelligent and logical and doesn't seem to be hugely into the social scene (she was telling me how she hardly ever goes out, etc). I'll explain why this may be relevant in a minute. So here's why I'm wondering if I just got FZed: Near the end of the phone call, she's talking about how she's "totally looking forward to Sunday." Another similarity between us gets brought up, and she says "omg, you're like my ideal friend." That's the kiss of death right? Normally I would think yes... however given her lack of understanding of social dynamics or game playing, I'm not entirely sure if she actually meant it like that. She concluded the phone call with "we should definitely stay in touch much more often." Now, I have had two LTRs start off almost EXACTLY like this before, with the exception of the "friend" comment. What I mean is, back in my AFC days, I had some LTRs that lasted over 1 year begin with long phone calls and finding out we had 11ty billion things in common over the phone. I know that's entirely counter-game strategy, but I'm just saying it's happened before. I should also point out that in the cases I'm referring to, the girls were also very intelligent and didn't really play "games" like most chicks do. Ok, I'm sure I made this way too long but that's my story. What does the vag think? btw, she's totally hot and she's a lawyer now Oh, I have a date Friday (with a former FWB, so it kinda doesn't count), Sat night I'm going out downtown to party with my friend and hopefully practice opening chicks, and then Sun I have my date or whatever this is with this girl. Anyway, for Sun, I'm trying to find a way to slip drinks into the mix since we were originally going to "go out for drinks." But it's going to be like Sun afternoon... probably not the right time for drinks. At any rate, I should hopefully get a lot of practice this weekend. Alright Vag, tell me if I have a chance with this girl based on preliminary information. Maybe she wants to meet me to see if I'm awesome enough to date (obviously I am).