Here is the deal, I'm 23 and still a virgin. I'm shy when it comes to girls. I'm a low key person. I have a hard time meeting girls, the only time i try to pick up girls is in college and with my luck usually have boyfriends (read my previous post) I don't like going out to clubs because the music is too loud, and I have a low voice so I usually have to repeat things I say and I don't like the atmosphere. I'm not ugly, I always get looks from girls and even guys . My main problem is I just don't know what to say, or I don't know how to continue a conversion once i ask all the basic questions like where " Likes dislikes, where your from, how old are you, work.etc). If I do get to know someone well enough I Always become just a friend. In a previous post I made someone said don't act needy. I try not to but I always do because I just want to meet someone and have a relationship or at least have a one night stand. I also have a problem of getting emotionally attached even though It hasn't gotten that far yet. For instance I meet some girl and shows some interest in me and we get to know each other ,I imagine all these things in my mind just like this Levis commerical lol. I wish I can just play it cool and play it smooth like most my friends do. I have another friend who is like me and is frustrated like me but he has had 2 girlfriends in the past He just has a problem keeping a relationship going but thats another story. I keep thinking if I lose my virginity I will change and won't feel as pressured all the time and have a easier time meeting girls. So My main question is Did Losing your virginity change you in a way that made you more relaxed around women and make it easier to talk to or does it make the way you were more so.