Ok guys, I REALLY need your help. First, for background, read this thred: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2986512 My ex-wife and I were divorced in April of this year. I am unemployed and living off the alimony that I recieve each month as per our pre-nuptial agreement taht was arranged by her father. I am going to be moving to SC in April of 2006 to persue career opportunities in the Computer Animation field, and to support my son from my previous marriage, my fiancee, and the baby we have coming. I am dealing with an ex who seems to think she can dictate the terms of my visitation rights with my son at her discretion and will. We have legal joint custody; however, as per the 'standard' in Kansas, his residency resides with her. I pay child support to her each month to provide monetary support to my son, from the alimony I recieve from her. I have asked her to meet with a mediatior prior to my move to discuss the terms of my visitation rights as it pertains to my son once I move; however, she has stated that if I want to see him, the only choice I have is to travel to Kansas. She is unwilling to even discuss any alternatives, and says she is going to take me to court. I need to know what legal recourse I have, as well as any help you guys can give in finding (cheap, or free, as I am poor) legal aid and advocacy for my right to see my son under equitable (ie, not defined by her) terms to both parents and my son. This is tearing me up, for on the one hand, I have a new family coming and am looking forward to persuing a career in the field I went to college for, but at the same time, I feel like she is dictating to me what my rights are, and I feel like I have no where to turn to see that I get fair treatment and consideration when it comes to my ability to see my son once I move. I am not trying to remove her custody or take my son away from her; I simply want fair terms when it comes to seeing my son once I move. Please help me, I am desperate.