So here’s the deal folks. There’s a man I’ve known for about a year or two. I met him and his girlfriend thru some mutual friends and he let me know the first time he had the opportunity that a.) He was a Dom and b.) that he found me attractive. I felt that there might be an invitation implied to play with he and his g/f but I never followed up on it. He recently broke up with said girlfriend. He needed a place to stay for a while so I offered him my spare room. I didn’t do this to give me an opportunity. I really was only trying to help out a friend. But,,,,,,,,, We talked on the phone a bit about the BDSM world and what we’ve both experienced in the past. I identified myself as a Dom to him. He talked about being weary of being the Dominate and wanting to explore more of his submissive side. I started as a submissive so it’s a subject I can discuss pretty intelligently. We had a very nice conversation and it was implied that we might “play sometime”. He came over to see my place and bring some stuff. We went to dinner and while at dinner I found myself in a conversation with him about setting up ground rules, safe words and limitations. Before I knew it I had signed on to guide him into the submissive world. It was hard to resist pursuing it. He brought out all the dark, vicious parts of me by talking about what he wanted. I felt a bit like a cat playing with a mouse. It aroused me, I admit it. Now ordinarily this would not be a problem but I’m worried about entering into that situation with him when he is going to be living in my house. I have no desire for a 24/7 slave. The thought is exhausting. I would much prefer to start with short sessions with time apart to process the experiences. I’m trying to decide how to proceed. He’s very attractive, 44, with a good job and no apparent mental instabilities. He’s offered himself to me as a slave. I don’t believe he wants to incorporate this into a normal girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. I think he means to be a submissive with me all the time. I’m not sure I can handle that or desire that. I know there are going to be some trolls that have smart comments they will be posting here. Be aware that I will ignore you. I would like some input from some of the people here that have intelligent thoughts on the matter.