Do men ever shit test women? v.rofl

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  1. Falconer

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    Do men ever purposely put women in annoying situations purely for the sake of "testing" them and then act like bitches if the women don't perform correctly? :rofl:
     
  2. Holliday

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    Not as much as women, but I would say yes.
     
  3. Falconer

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    examples?

    Is it subconscious (like it supposedly is with women) or do men do it on purpose?
     
  4. Holliday

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    I don't do it myself, nor have any of my friends that I know of so I can't provide first-hand examples.

    And :rofl: at women doing it "subconsciously."
     
  5. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    If a guy says "convince me why I should take you out on a date." Is that a shit test?
     
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    No thats just a shitty man trying to be an Alpha male.
     
  7. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    K. Thx. What could be an example of a shit test a man would give a woman then?
     
  8. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Yes, guys do that too. I've had guys trying to make me jealous by mentioning other women.
     
  9. Falconer

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    That's not a shit test.

    How do you know they were "trying to make you jealous" vs. just casually mentioning another woman that was relevant to the story?
     
  10. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    lol, I knew.:rofl: They were obviously doing it to get a reaction out of me.
     
  11. Falconer

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    I always assumed that looked bad for the male.

    Trying to make the other person jealous = low value behavior.

    The only way making the other person jealous can be high value is if you're completely passive, like if you're out with your gf and a hot chick hits on you, unprovoked, in front of your gf. That sends preselection and high value signs to your gf, which will make her jealous.

    Anything else, whether it's "omg I saw this hot chick today" to "blah blah blah hot chick blah blah" makes the guy look tryhard which is low value. Because in 99% of cases, it's not relevant to mention that the chick in question was hot, and by doing so, it's apparent what you're trying to do.

    It's still not a shit test.
     
  12. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    What is a shit test then?
     
  13. Holliday

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    It's so hard to find girls that like quality movies.
     
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    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Is that even a quality you look for? Movies are so trivial, who cares what she likes or doesn't like.
     
  15. BoomBoomBoy

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    When I was young, I was immature and enjoyed "testing" my girlfriends on a regular basis. Why they put up with me as I look back, eludes me.

    Immature men FTMFL.
     
  16. Holliday

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    It's not a big thing at all, actually. My last LTR, my ex and I didn't agree on movies in the least. It was just annoying sometimes.
     
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    Shit testing someone shows that that person has low self-esteem and no confidence.
     
  18. Holliday

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    of course I mean by "didn't agree" that she had shitty taste :mamoru:
     
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    don't think i'm guilty of this

    i do play mindgames, alpha games, headfucksm and some tests, but never a shittest involving throwing a girl into an annoying/uncomfortable situation
     
  20. Holliday

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    But seriously, this "shit testing" is fucking lame. I can understand if something comes up and you want to see if they will do the right thing, but if you are purposefully creating situations just to test a partner there is something wrong with you.

    Reminds me of when I first took my ex out to meet my grandparents. I received a drunk call from a girl I used to have a thing with in high school in the middle of the night. I didn't see it until the next morning but promptly deleted it, knowing that it could result in an unnecessary fight. A four and half hour drive later, she mentioned that she was awoken by my phone ringing in the middle of the night last night. She asked who it was. I lied and said it was an unknown number and they didn't leave a message.

    I start to see tears welling in her eyes and I knew I was fucked. She had checked the phone the night before and didn't tell me. She was mad about me hiding something and I was mad about her "shit testing" me. It turned into the first big fight we had, but it was definitely not our last.
     
  21. Falconer

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    You're telling me.

    Yet women do it ALL THE TIME.
     
  22. Kev07

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    i think this is an example of testing

    shit testing sounds more like if she set up that phone call to see what you would do.
     
  23. jdm-cd5

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    no, cause men arn't shady and sadistic like women are.
     
  24. Holliday

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    there's a difference between testing and shit testing :ugh:

    She set up the situation, though. If I had been in her shoes I would have just told her "hey so I saw that guy called you last night" and probably make fun of her. "Testing" her wouldn't have even crossed my mind.
     
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    i generally see shit testing as a more extreme version of testing :hsugh:

    in your case, it seemed she just wanted to test to see if you would lie to her.

    i can give an example of my ex who asked me to buy something for her (jokingly) and i told her haha no. and she said she'd flash me on webcam and i told her yeah... no (forgot what i said exactly)

    apparently she was shit testing me to see if i would actually jump at the opportunity of getting flashed, a lot more complicated that what i care to type up, but that's the general idea.

    in my case, she created the situation, for the SOLE purpose of testing me because she is insecure(she had no intention of flashing me, and apparently even if i offered to buy it for her she was going to laugh it off and decline (which was a shit test in itself but thats a longer story))
     
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