So, I get this email from one of my groomsmen today: I told him "its her day, let her have it". I didn't say this, but its my reasoning: 1) He can be kind of a loud breather. 2) Its her wedding day, it means a lot to her and its the day every girl dreams of. Yes, she has some out-of-the-ordinary requests, but its her fucking day, its only chance she'll get in her entire life to make it perfect. Just suck it up and try at least before you start bitching about it. And he replies with: What kind of fucking friend threatens to drop out of his close friends wedding party over some petty shit like my fiance asking him to not breathe loud as fuck so he doesn't distract her, other members of the wedding party, or distract attention from us? If you're going to bring up the cheating, save your energy. That shit happened, its the fucking past. I never plan on cheating again even though I'm tempted sometimes. STFU about it.