I am having a problem with my boyfriend. I have been with him off and on for three years now, and he is virtually all I have ever known really. Here latley he has began to distance himself. Well not so much distance, just more intrested in other things besides me. Such as, the computer. He loves playing WOW. And quite frankly I do too. But, my life does not revolve around it. When I wake up and go to work at 4:00 in the morning, he gets up and plays his game. Know harm know foul because I am not their. But, when I get off work he gets on and plays till he has to go to work. It just feels we are slipping away from each other. We have not even had sex for 2 months now. And we use to do it all the time. I since something has changed in him. I have tried talking about it with him, and he swears he is going to change or do his best to make me feel wanted instead of a piece of shit, but I still feel like I am worthless. It is killing me. I feel like my whole world is crashing down because he is just not acting and showing me he loves me like he use to. I try to spice things up, by telling him we should try new things in the bedroom, but he always tells me he is busy. One of my friends told me to tell him either he starts caring or thats it. Well how can you force a person to love you? You can't. So I asked him what can you show me that will make me decide to stay with you? And why should I waste my life on someone who is more like a roomate to me then a boyfriend? I was so angry at the time, and kinda regret saying some of those things. But, maybe I am just worried about myself, I don't know. But, I will ask him everyday how he feels, if he needs anything. Or if he wants to go do something. All he says is, yeah later tho, I am doing this quest. I mean I have a lot of history with him, I would not want to throw all that away for nothing. I wish if he was just not intrested in me anymore that he would just tell me so I could start the healing process. I know I love him, but is it realy worth all this pain?