Basically 3 months ago I was dating a girl for maybe 5-6 weeks... But we lived a good distance apart, we both work 60 hrs a week (often working opposite shifts) AND she was in the process of moving into a new home. All this contributed to the "relationship" fading out. Since then we've had no contact, until today where she text me twice within the hour, "Hi how are you, it's been a while etc x", the second was an hour later "You probably won't reply to thisx". I replied, we chatted (read: "text back and forth") and I joked that she never invited me to her house warming party or the parties thereafter. She replied, "I should have invited you and will do the next time. I really did think about it though.x" The final text she sent tonight was "I'll text you tomorrow, it was lovely chatting to you.x" The whole time her tone was as if we were only out of touch for several days. So am I over-analysing this, could she be interested again now that her life has calmed down a bit? Or is she just being friendly? For the OP here, would you text a guy you dated 2-3 months down the line to see how his life was? Or would it be because you wanted to date him/be an FB? Oh and I never read into the "x" at the end of a message, but the reason I have included those "x"'s at the end of each text is because beyond a "goodnight" text she never put a kiss when we were dating. Is this a little more significant? Finally, should I just bluntly ask her wtf does she want (only nicer terminology!)? Any theories would be great!