Most of you who are reading this are going to be like duh, i knew that already or this kid is an idiot.I was with some friends today and the one was talking about the pussy he just got from some cute girl,and i was thinking wtf. He isnt the best looking dude,but seems to do pretty well with the chicks. On the other hand I do horrible,because i put in no effort and always think of a negative outcome. He was like "you have a 50/50,but if you dont try you never know". The worst they can say is no, i have a bf or some other crap, who the f cares. There are millions more out there just waiting for someone to come along, or like going out,dating,having sex or whatever it maybe. The point is I think most people get to damn parnoid and scared of woman of what they might think like myself. Worry aobut getting shut down, embarrassed but who the hell cares. I mean yeah i wouldnt go doing this to girls in your classroom they might think your creepy,but girls you see at the mall,food store,walking around town,around campus etc. She gives you some eye contact or a smile, smile back. Say hello what is your name,give her yours. Nice talking to you,can I have your number maybe we can go out sometime. No I have a bf she says, okay but i dont want his number i want yours. She laughs you say goodbye or what not, and move on. No reason why you guys shouldnt get a few girls numbers every week. I realized I just play way to much into it,and make it seem way harder than it is. If you dont try at all, you will never know.