So I've been crushin on this guy at work for almost a year now. We don't work in the same department. Infact on different floors and there is nothing that we have to work together for. He's 28. I feel like we are on the same level. Something just clicks. We both are extremely sarcastic have the same sense of humor, wise cracks at eachother or towards other people. We've always kind of flirted but he was off limits for the first portion of our friendship. Right before Thanksgiving he broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years. It was a long distance relationship I guess for most of their relationship. I think he wanted her to move here and she turned around without talking to him and bought a house where she lived. It kind of fizzled. So it's been a few months. He emails me throughout the day every day while working.Just chit chat....since we don't work in the same department. Jokes or funny things that happen. We kind of did this before but I've noticed it's happening more frequently intiated by him. He looks for me when he walks out after work. We had our picture taken together at the company party in January and he kept it. I had to order a second copy from HR He asks me to go to lunch every Friday but it's a group lunch. He drove an hour from the city he commutes from to come to my birthday party on the weekend during one of the worst snow storms this winter. My friend who works in his department with him overheard a guy ask who all came and one guy mentioned that he had went and the other guy cut him off laughing and said "well obviously he went, that's a given" and they both chuckled. She also said he's completely quiet all the time except for when I'm around and he never talks to any other females (and there are a lot of hot females where I work.) I'm positive he's got a thing for me but I know he's very reserved and kind of on the shy side. He won't make a move! It kind of surprises me because really cute! He makes innocent comments about how I must get hit on all the time ect ect. So last week I sucked it up for the first time ever and made the first move. I gave him my number and told him that we (my cousin, who he met at my birthay a bunch of friends including her husband and his friends and I) were probably going out Saturday and if he was feeling up to it he could come out with his friends if he wanted. He shot me an email back within minutes with his phone number but said due to the fact he had his wisdom teeth out the week prior he said he probably wouldn't be doing much crazy that weekend since he was still kind of recouperating... but also said if I wanted to drunk dial him I was more than welcome but I was required to leave funny messages if i got his voicemail so he could use them against me later. My friend said he wouldn't even give his number to anyone in their department for emergency calls. Anyway, I didn't drunk dial him. I don't want to lead him to believe that getting trashed and drunk dialing people is normal behavior for me...although it is fun every once and awhile. So I made the first move. Gave him my number... Plenty of emails but no calls from him and he hasn't asked me out but he keeps giving me signals that he's interested.... I like a guy who is a little assertive. I think I've made it pretty obvious that I'm interested in him in other ways too. I really really dig this guy... I feel like this is a special one and he's worth allowing for some time and effort but I can't figure out why he's holding back. I'm hesitant to try harder if he's holding back for some reason.