I really never understood the whole long waiting for sex when you are in a relationship. I was wondering what do most people beleive is a approriate time for someone to be in a relationship before they have sex with each or, or anyhting else sexual in manner such as oral sex? MY current gf of only about a month or so, i know isnt ready which is perfeclty fine. My last gf it took like 8 months or so before we had sex or did anything such as oral. Im a very patient person, i am just wondering what most people think about this issue?