** Penny pics for size comparisons** Two key points: lube and size Most important -- use lots of lube. Silicone based > water based vanilla flavor > cherry nuts in the ass > dick in the pussy Listen up peeps, this is just as important.. Anal beads: start small and ease into it. (We learned this the hard way ) POP QUIZ: Which should you try first? The 1 1/2" jinlgy anal beads or the 1/8 inchers, getting progressively larger and not exceeding 1"? If you guessed the 1/8 inchers, you're correct! Same goes for anal plugs, start small. If you've never tried these, patron your local sex store and pick these up. One night you're wearing them during sex and the next day you're masterbating using one while your SO is away. Next thing you know, you're wearing one for 8 hours straight while you're at work. Penny pic for size ref: Hot pic of a slightly gaped anus, click at yor own risk: http://robinlehr.com/an0r/asphinctersezwhat.jpg Have fun!