I see a lot of people around here who are interested in seduction material and may know a bit about it, but lack the background to apply it successfully. I also see a lot of people who know a lot of techniques but lack an understanding of how it all fits together. There are also a few people who really get it. Lets clear a few things up: "So you've read The Game... now what?" The Game is a very entertaining book. It contains a small slice of what the seduction community is about. I've been doing this since before The Game came out and it has certainly popularized the seduction community, and has also whitewashed it with guys who give it a try and fail because they did not put enough time or effort into it to really make a change in their life. Don't read it for techniques. Read it because it is a very well written field report. "OK, so how do I learn seduction techniques?" This EDU is not about learning seduction techniques, its about learning to apply them. That being said, welcome to teh internets. There are several good websites where computer nerds get together and share techniques, field reports, and general tips. I've visited most of them. I've only ever stayed at a few. You'll come to see that each is its own little organism with its own personality. That being said, Google 'seduction' and you'll find enough material to last a lifetime. There are also many PUAs who run bootcamps in major cities everywhere. You'll find them if you know where to look. There are free mailing lists. Look for 'Double Your Dating' (beginner) and 'Cliffs List' (more advanced). "How do I use seduction technology?" Step 1: What do you want? Yes it matters. Take some time to figure it out. Write it down and think about it a lot. This shit works but you have to be moving towards some kind of goal, not just farting around. Do you want to get laid every weekend? Do you want to have many short term relationships? Do you want to have multiple long term relationships? A steady girlfriend? Your perfect wife? Better sex? Save your marriage? Decide. Step 2: Learn about the Dating Matrix. Learn about Secret Society theory. Learn about evolution and sexual selection (Darwin). Understand what happens inside a woman. This is a slow, long process (6-12 months to fully 'get it') and will honestly blow your mind. Learn to love women for what they are, not what you want them to be. Learn why women create drama, and why everything comes down to sex. INTERNALIZE THIS STUFF. Step 3: Filter out seduction material based upon your goals. With experience this will be quite easy. On the net people post about techniques that THEY have had success with in THEIR situation given THEIR personality. Stop and think: Will this work for me? Does this fit in with my personality? Does this match the goals that I have set? Step 4: Figure out WHY IT WORKS. If you understand the concepts in seduction, evolutionary biology/psychology (what we call The Matrix), you can understand WHY something works. Then, you can create techniques that are more congruent with your personality that will work. This prevents problems like "Oh, I've heard that line before" which are caused by using canned openers or shitty stock routines. Step 5: Apply techniques to work towards your goal. Not happy with your sex life in your relationship? Apply techniques to get a better sex life. Enjoy football on a Sunday but your wife gets bitter about it? Apply techniques. One of the most important lessons in seduction is: ONLY APPLY TECHNIQUES WHEN YOU WANT SOMETHING TO CHANGE. The seduction community was created for people who are not happy with some aspect of their relationships with women. When everything is going great, don't overgame her. There are one or two exceptions to this rule, but they are very advanced concepts and generally revolve around diffusing drama before it starts. Step 6: Learn from what you do. Did you get the reaction you want? Why or why not? One of the most important things I ever learned in seduction is this: I don't care about what she wants, I only care about what she responds to. Cliffs: Don't be a moran who thinks he can run around spitting lines from The Game and getting mad chicks. Seduction is a self-improvement course, not a bunch of pick-up-lines.