So I found out a girl ive been with has a boyfriend!!! i didnt know until last night at 2am when we're sleeping and she gets a crazy phone call!! I could here him shouting through the phone looking for her ...OMG! lol what a way to find out. now i had no idea until now and i wonder what i should do. i used to think it was wrong to try and homewreck ... ( ... like how would you like it if someone did it to you) But now I think my view is changing. If the girl likes the guy, then she should be with him, and no one should be able to break them up, and if they can be broken up - then i guess they just werent meant to be. just wondering what the consensus is. i think its pretty terrible, but is that just the nature of the beast? all is fair in love and war? or is there such a thing as boundaries and respect for others?