Every time I find a guy I like, it ends up turning into a friends with benefits kind of thing. First guy I liked I was friends with for a long time prior. It ended up being a make out on the weekend thing. Next guy...this one was my fault...i decided to date him even though he had some serious issues, found out he had a kid, cut it off and was fwb. That one I understand. Next guy didnt turn out like that, but on the first date he said "I think I am falling in love with you." That freaked me out because I wasn't really attracted to him and it was the FIRST date. Most recent guy, I really liked him. We have hung out a few times, so I asked him what we were doing...hes not looking for anything serious now....blah blah blah, Ive heard the speech a million times. Why do I keep finding these guys? Any ideas on how to avoid this?