Everything you want to know + Birth Control & Pregnancy Q's (a MUST read)

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  1. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    Nope, vaginal orgasm is attained by stimulation of the G-spot. PC muscles are used to control orgasm, control ejaculate, and perform certain Tantric techniques.
     
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    How do you tell if the kegals are working? I tried them for weeks but didnt notice a difference.
     
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    Zemo n00b of the year

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    If you practice kegal specific excersizes as prescribed, they are working your kegals. You can tell if they are working by sqeezing your PC muscles (the ones to stop the flow of pee) when you orgasm, see if you can prevent yourself from ejaculating. The stronger your kegals, the more times in a row you can do this.
     
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    poyol Poyol means Dumbass

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    Don't overdo it though.

    I remember controlling my orgasm so hard that I did not ejaculate!
     
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    Zemo n00b of the year

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    If you've been reading, you'd see that that's the idea. Control it to the point of not ejaculating, many times in a row....that's how a man can be multi orgasmic. It's hard, but worth it.
     
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    poyol Poyol means Dumbass

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    But the thing is, ejaculating is fun! :rofl:

    I've held it before, and I had that orgasmic feeling...but did not ejaculate. After having that orgasmic feeling, i felt "revived" like I could go on for another hour or two :bigthumb:

    But I guess I'm just not physically fit enough to go for that long, because after I orgasm and held my ejaculate, I was already feeling tired. The broad appreciated it though, I guess she could feel my cawk throbbing when close to orgasm and was expecting me to finish, but was pleasantly surprised that I could still go on :bigthumb:
     
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    how many a day is optimal to see results? I have read that 100 a day see results in 3 months but damn thats a long way away
     
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    Before I really started training myself, after I just learned how, I could do two in a row..but it wasn't easy. And yes, those muscles build slow. It's not like it's hard to work them out, or obvious, so work them any time you think of it....sitting in class, standing in line at the grocery store, sitting at your computer...clench and realease, clench and release. hold it for a long time, or do it really fast...whatever! Just do it, you'll see results eventually.
     
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    Tornado6 When the wind set down in funnel form and pulled y

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    Then you must add a "uterine orgasm" to your list, if you are going to narrowly define "vaginal orgasm" as g-spot stimulation only. Please don't tell me they don't exist, because I have them regularly, and they feel better than g-spot orgasms.
     
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    Most people can't differentiate between the two....uterine orgasms are usually accompanied by g-spot orgasms....

    what stimulation is necessary to have a strictly uterine orgasm?
     
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    So I tried the technique to make myself last longer, and i just couldn't do it. i masturbated until i was just about to cum, and then i let go and clenched. the sensation was too powerful, and i had to unclench and finish it off.

    does it take practice before you can get it right?
     
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    practice makes perfect :big grin:
     
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    Zemo n00b of the year

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    Yeah, it takes lots of practice...and a will of iron at first. It was nearly impossible my first time....keep in mind I've been doing this for about a year, and it's still not the most natural thing to do ever. Just keep practicing your kegals....when you piss, stop the flow, then start, and stop and start...practice makes perfect!
     
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    Zemo n00b of the year

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    And yes, the final orgasm and feeling is much more intense when you do it....almost a different kind of orgasm.
     
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    so i heard this somewhere before and have tried it myself. If you put pressure on the area between your balls and hole while having your orgasm, you can stop from ejaculating. It deffinately works, but is this the same thing? I can always keep it hard so I'm not sure if I am still hard from blocking it or from just being a horney little 20 year old. Also, I generally only last for 8-15 minutes, yet after doing this i don't feel like orgasming again for like 45min-1hour.
     
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    I'd imagine it's more or less the same result as squeezing from the inside, as it would be pushing from the outside...makes sense. Although, after doing that, you seem to still need a refractory period....I don't. Maybe squeezing from the inside does a little something extra?
     
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    Tornado6 When the wind set down in funnel form and pulled y

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    I feel better and have them with really deep penetration. It's way beyond my g-spot. I've heard it called the epicenter. Excuse the rest of the site if it offends, but I believe this part is right on:


    I have a retroverted uterus, so it doesn't take above normal length to reach that place on my body. I can't be an authority on what happens to women with normally oriented body parts. I know a lot of people claim that a long penis only hits them in the cervix and hurts. Maybe if the cervix hitters leaned a little, they'd hit this spot. It really feels very nice. It doesn't take the same amount of concentration as a g-spot orgasm, which can take some work to achieve. It only takes hitting the "epicenter" a few times in a row to set me off.​
     
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    Uterine orgasm occurs usually as a result of deep vaginal stimulation of the Epicenter (Orgasmic pacemaker). A uterine orgasm is marked by heavy contractions of the inner vagina and uterus that trigger a heat wave to run from the lower abdomen through the chest bone. Even more than in a vaginal orgasm, a woman has a sense of deep sexual satisfaction after this kind of orgasm.


    i wanna make a girl do THAT!
     
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    In for tips on hitting this epicenter (see: good positions) :x:
     
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    epicenter = just obove the cirvix. You need a long shlong to hit it...long enough to apply a serious amount of pressure. It's the nerve group immediately towards the navel of the muscle opening to the uterus. How to it it? Find a sex position where you can penitrate as deep as possible....have her lie on her back, knees up against her chest, as you enter, and go to the hilt. The deeper the better. You'll feel the strong muscle cervix...aim just above that, and go at it with strong and direct pressure.

    ..and cross your fingers.
     
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    alright, i told my GF about it tonight, gonna try to hit it tomorrow...i could touch it w/ my middle finger...i've been close to hitting it before, i just always ram into the cervix and it hurts her...and then she gets pretty sore....should i like...angle from the top up...or what?

    my girlfriend is really short too (5 foot 2) so i would imagine that my 6.2 incher should be able to do the job...
     
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    If you can reach the cervix with your middle finger, 6.2" should do just fine. The thing is, you have to have some stamina....the epicenter, like any other unexplored playground, won't be terribly sensative at first. It will be a long and slow build to orgasm....I doubt many guys can make it that far.

    If you can hit it with your middle finger, you might try to stimulate it that way. The spot is somewhat along the vaginal wall, immediatly anterior (towards the front of her body, towards the belly button, whatever) of the cervix. And listen to her, get feedback. Ask her to tell you if you find it. Ask her to tell you to use more/less pressure, etc. If she does get sore, stop. Oh, and trim your fingernails very short...those could hurt.
     
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    VAGINARIUM FAQ: Everything you wanted to know, but were afraid to ask

    Precum - All men have it, most women do not. Precum is the result of the muscles surrounding your urethra contracting, to get rid of all the left over urine/semen/whatever else is in there, before ejaculation, so that only semen gets ejaculated. Women also have this, because in the womb, in the first trimester, there is generally no sex decided, so the body must be prepared for both sex organs to develop later on. So women have the muscles, and the conditioning to clear the urethra before ejaculation, just as men do, while in many women, this response (to clear the urethra) is repressed and eliminated.

    Women ejaculation - it's not a myth. About 40% of women are capable of it, but don't allow it, because it feels unnatural at first (feels like you have to pee). Again, this is a result of the still undeveloped body being prepared for both sets of sex organs. The fluid is created in a series of glands between the urethra and vaginal canal. During an intense orgasm resulting from stimulating these glands (the g-spot), these glands contract, forcing a fluid strikingly similar to male semen (minus the sperm) into the urethra and out.

    G-spot - as mentioned above, it's not a myth. The "g-spot" is actually a series of glands that are basically the female equivalent of the prostate in men. In an aroused woman, these glands swell. The largest and closest to the vaginal wall (about 2-3" in, on the navel side) can be felt and directly stimulated. As it is a gland, and not a collection of nerve endings (as is the clitoris), it responds to pressure, not motion.

    Male orgasm - you all know it and love it. Simple and effective.

    Male multiple orgasm - difficult yet worth it, and possible for every guy. It's largely a result of conditioning of your PC muscles through Kegal type excersizes. Masturbate, but the instant before orgasm, just as you begin to orgasm, stop ALL stimulation (let go, close your eyes, whatever) and sqeeze like you would if you were trying stop the flow of piss. After a while, you'll be able to orgasm without ejaculating, maintain an erection, and be ready to orgasm again within 10 seconds.....my record is 5 consecutive orgasms.

    Female orgasm - comes in two kinds. Vaginal and clitoral. The clitoral kind is relatively easy to attain. Motion-type stimulation of the clitoris causes a shollow and explosive orgasm, usually short. Results (much like in men) a very sensative genital area for a few seconds. The Vaginal orgasm is much harder to attain. It's caused by PRESSURE-type stimulation of the g-spot. This orgasm is very different than a clitoral orgasm. Slow, dull and seemingly originating from deep within the body. Lasts and lingers for a long time. Most women who have had both kinds prefer the vaginal type, due it it's longer lasting and "warmer" type sensation. Many women who are unfamiliar with their bodies resist vaginal orgams, because they are somewhat associated with feelings that arn't usually associated with sex. From direct g-spot type stimulation, the initial feeling, lasting up to around 30 seconds, is that of needing to pee. As a result, most women resist, and never have a vaginal orgasm. Vaginal orgasms are also the kind that cause female ejaculation.

    Female multiple orgasm - immediatly following orgasm, the genitals are sensative, but after a few seconds are ready to be stimulated again. 'nuff said.

    sperm in the pre-cum male pre-cum USUALLY contains sperm. Either from a recent ejaculation (those buggers can live for 48 hours in the right conditions) or a from a bit of a leak from the testicles. If it's comming out of your penis, it can probably get her pregnant.

    Pussy smell - Combination of bacteria (warm, dark and moist...perfect place) and natural human pheromones. There's a difference between the bad, fishy kind of smell, and the erotic human kind of smell. Women, keep yourself clean....I love the taste of a woman if she takes care of herself.

    Male "g-spot - The male "g-spot" is not a G-spot, but is similar. The male prostate gland is one large gland, usually the size of a golfball or a bit smaller. Immediately inside the anus, about 2 inches in, on the same side as the scrotum. Also responds to pressure, much like the female g-spot. An orgasm is possible from prostate stimulation alone, but very rare, and not terribly exciting.

    A woman's wettness and it's limits - The only limit to the amount of fluid a woman can produce is the hydration and electrolytes in her body. The reason she's being "tapped out" is because she's no longer turned on. It's very likely that when she's no longer wet, she no longer wants to fuck. But, that's her call, some people like sex wether they are physically turned on or not. Ask her, give her the opportunity to stop, and if she wants to keep going, use lots of lube.


    g-spot stimulation - The best way to stimulate the g-spot is to have her lay on her back, with her knees up. This shortens the vaginal canal, making everything easier to get at. Insert two fingers, about 2-3 inches in. If she's properly aroused, with some feeling on the navel side of the vaginal wall, you'll feel a spongy area. This is the g-spot. PRESSURE-type stimulation....curl your fingers into a "come hither" kind of shape, and prod at the g-spot. not a tickleing motion, but a slow "come hither" type motion, with LOTS of pressure. another thing you can do is curl your fingers under her pubic bone, so they just barely hit the g-spot, and litterally lift her off the ground. Some girls like it, some don't, so be a careful lover. An orgasm from g-spot type stimulation is a lot slower, but it's worth it. If she doesn't ask you to stop, and if she's reacting favorably, keep at it until your arm is ready to fall off.

    g-spot stimulation with the penis - the penis is not the best way to stimulate the g-spot. It can be done, and with a well trained man (usually takes a tantrika) can work great, but most men can't do it. You'd need to be able to maintain maximum hardness, and know the correct positions so that the head comes in direct and forceful contact with the g-spot, while being able to not orgasm for a VERY long time (vaginal orgasms take much longer to happen). I wouldn't worry about it, if I were you. Just stick to using your fingers, and learn to get off on the fact that she's getting off because of you. If you feel the need to try (don't expect much), now that you know where the g-spot is, aim the head of your penis to come in direct contact with it. Remember, it's a pressure stimulated gland, not a motion, so thrusting isn't going to work. Doggie style, with your holding your penis in a downward angle can work. Don't push your head in further than the g-spot, but just try to FORCEFULLY (with your hands, you can litterally lift her off the floor....can you do that with your penis?) massage the spot slowly with your head. Another position, would be her on her back, on the edge of a bed, with you standing on the floor. You'd need to try for the same thing, but with upward pressure. Good luck, and honestly....just stick to using your fingers.

    How do I last longer?- Training yourself to not orgasm, or better yet, orgasm but not cum, is a long a difficult task. Some part of it is a mindset....I'm not going to cum, so as to give her the most pleasure I can. The other part of it is muscles. Your Pubococcycal muscles (or PC) are the ones responsible for stopping the flow of urine. Work these muscles hard by doing "kegal" excersizes. Best part is, you can work 'em anywhere, without anyone knowing. Just clench like you're trying to stop the flow of pee.....work it different ways...clench and unclench rapidly, clench and hold for a long time, etc. Then, next time you need to orgasm (best to try this when masturbating first) just as you begin to orgasm, stop all stimulation, and sqeeeze the crap out of your PC muscles (the ones the kegals were working on). With any luck, you'll orgasm, but you won't ejaculate, won't loose your wood, and won't need a refractory period. Go at it again...orgasm should only take another 10 seconds to hit or so....do the same thing, clench for all your worth. See how many times in a row you can orgasm without blowing your load. (yes, men can be multi-orgasmic too). Then the moment of truth...see if you can do this with your woman. Go to the edge of orgasm, stop all stimulation (pull out or whatever) and clench...then go at it again...you'll blow her mind!Another technique, would be to stop stimulation just before you orgasm, let yourself rest a sec, and go at it again. Not as intense for you, but also not as hard to attain.

    More on the vaginal orgasmThe vaginal orgasm is hard to attain for most women...and yes, you'll KNOW when you've had it. Put your knees up....feet up in the air if it's comfortable for you. This shortens the vaginal canal (most of this stuff is explained earlier in this thread) and makes stuff easier to get at. You need to RELAX and enjoy all of the feelings....be willing to take them slowly, and savor each reaction that you have. Have him insert a couple fingers (however many you're comfortable with) and start prodding around where the g-spot should be. give him feedback, and lots of it. Help him pinpoint the spot. TONS of pressure (as much as you're comfortable with) and just a wee bit of motion...entirely different approach than with the clit. You'll start to feel the sexual tension build, but it will be slower and different than you're used to. Warmer, duller, and more pulsating. Continue...tell him to keep going until his arm falls off, until he can't go any more. The orgasm will build very very slowly. ANY feelings you have are perfectly natural, so allow them to happen, and learn to enjoy them. The feeling of needing to pee is the hard one for most women to get over...learn to enjoy that feeling, as it's part of the sexual experience. Don't allow him to stimulate the clit, try to concentrate on just the g-spot.When you DO orgasm from it, there's a good chance (2/5) that you're a squirter and don't know it....you'll find out, if you just relax, and let what happens happen. Keep in mind that it is physically impossible to actually pee during orgasm. Certain muscles prevent it. The orgasm will feel entirely different than what you've experienced in the past....it will seem to originate from deep within your body, pulsating outward. Warm, intense, full, and very long lasting. It will probably linger for a while too...don't expect to operate heavy machinery afterwards....good luck with the walking too, don't expect your legs to support you until you've rested.Just keep at it, experiment, find out what you like, and don't be afraid to ask questions.

    Orgasmic Epicenter epicenter = just obove the cirvix. You need a long shlong to hit it...long enough to apply a serious amount of pressure. It's the nerve group immediately towards the navel of the muscle opening to the uterus. How to it it? Find a sex position where you can penitrate as deep as possible....have her lie on her back, knees up against her chest, as you enter, and go to the hilt. The deeper the better. You'll feel the strong muscle cervix...aim just above that, and go at it with strong and direct pressure...and cross your fingers.

    Semen Taste Salty, like most other electrolyte filled body fluids. Some women really dig the taste, most do not. How do you make it taste better? Less meat, less dairy, more citrus fruit. Stick to pineapple, orange, strawberrys, kiwi.... The better you taste, the more you'll get tasted!

    Penis Size Average size is 5" - 6".....so what? I know, I know, everybody's always worried about the size of their penis, and to be honest, it does matter a SMALL amount. A longer penis can stimulate the orgasmic epicenter, for instance. Also, a wider penis will give a more full sensation for the woman, and can thereby stimulate the G-spot. But guess what...a guy with a giant cock <<< a guy with a small/average size, who knows what he's doing. If you know what makes your girl tick, you'll both be much happier, penis size irregardless. Guess how many girls keep track or measure your penis? probably 0. The only one who worries about it is you, so get over your insecurities, and have fun with it!

    I'd like to keep this "FAQ" open ended, so it can become more complete. So please, if you have questions, ask! I'll answer, and add to this initial post.
     
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    alrighty, due to the height difference of my girl and i, we did it on top of the washer (plus im sure the vibrations help) and while we were going at it she was complaining that she had to pee, i tol dher to let it go, but she didnt :doh: and didnt orgasm..

    afterwards i asked her, did it feel like it was building up? was it starting to feel really good? etc etc, she agreed, and about 10 minutes later she actually DID have to go pee and she said it was a slightly different need to pee while we were having sex...

    my question is, should she "push" it out like she would be forcing pee out, or "just don't restrict it and let it happen"?
     
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    The idea is that she understand that her body will have that reaction, and to accept it. No pushing or restricting needed, just enjoy the feeling. If she allows her body to feel that, and not fight it, when she does orgasm she won't be able to fight it.
     

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